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What is the happy reality of our generation?

Last Updated: 19.06.2025 01:17

What is the happy reality of our generation?

Life went on in essentially as a late 19th/early 20th century mold.

Thank you for the question. Ms. Priya C.

> River Dams, Public Sector undertakings, Five year Plans galore, HMT, HAL, ITI etc. gave us the aam aami the euphoric feeling that we were on the right track to our deserved place as a great power in the comity of nations.

Can you explain the concept of an annulment of marriage in the Roman Catholic Church and its effects on a previous marriage?

> Idealism reigned supreme, about the Govt. and it people and why not?

Young Kids have a lot of money these days and are getting married much later.

I will also assume that this question is posed vis a vis my generation and compare that to conditions faced by generations today.

Artists get better with age, e.g., painting. Yet when it comes to pop music, the famous work tends to be written when musicians are in their twenties. So, why aren't Bob Dylan or the Stones banging out amazing tunes now?

Boys and Girls these days are not afraid to be friends to each other (My opinion overall a good thing)

Five Star Hotels were not as ubiquitous as today.

1947–1964 ( Post Independence Generation). (Roughly Nehruvian)

Why do certain religions consider menstruating women to be impure? Where did the concept of impurity stem from?

> “Secularism” was dinned into our ears until it became “second nature”, to most of us anyway.

The first flush of aaya rams and gaya rams were creeping into the body politic of our legislature and that is when I left for the USA and that was almost 50 yrs. ago.

Indian industry started to make cars and other goods.

Why did Kamala say immigrants eating cats isn’t real when there’s police bodycam footage of it happening?

Foreign Exchange were so hard to come by in case you had to go abroad.

Love marriages were all to be ‘gasped at’ so rare were they at that time.

2014- Present

Is there an MBTI personality that is more or less likely to handle stress?

>Both Central and State. Most of the Leaders were educated in the finest traditions of liberalism, often at Oxford and Cambridge and they had sacrificed their ‘cushy futures” for the cause of independence. When country’s rule passed into their hands, what would one expect?. Little if any corruption at the highest levels, or at least the perception of it.

South Indian Films have now gained an All India Traction and seems to be edging out Bollywood, as it portrays less of a fake India than Bollywood.

Growing up in this decade.

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Even though inflation was rising, there was a semblance of stability in the daily routine of everybody. The institutions and arms of the Govt. worked for the most part. Judiciary, Police, Govt bureaucracy etc.

Ministers etc. were the only ones to have the Indian Flag on their bonnets. (Don’t know why?)

Very few boys strayed and even fewer girls.

Is spinach easy to grow?

There are also proliferation of IT cells that offer an altered reality of the world, as they would like to see it and not as it really is.

Schools were fewer. Universities even fewer.

I’m going to attempt to taxonomy “Generations” in India as below.

Do you enjoy cheating on your spouse? If so, why?

Indian Media is being controlled by a few business houses and the news especially foreign news is presented in a slanted way to suit the way, the Govt. would like it to be seen or not seen at all.

The first flush of enthusiasm of the Nehruvian age soon turned into despondency as Public Sector Industry after Public Sector Industry were all running in losses.

South Indian Cinema had great actors and story lines that we could relate.

I'm a 28-year-old guy who has never been in a relationship, nor can I seem to find someone who wants to be in one with me. Why do I feel like a freak?

Education has gotten so much more expensive.

It was very very hard for the general category people to get seats in the few Engineering and Medical Colleges in the State, let alone the IIT’s.

There is a general atmosphere of intolerance towards minorities, with people unafraid to say things that would’ve been unthinkable in my day.

Which is better, a naked picture of some one you know or porn videos?

Many Indian Journalists have now been co opted so that they too are now in the money making business and currying favor with the powers that be. So how objective can their writings be?

> We grew up basking in the first flush of the pleasant prospect of an “Independent” resurgent India.

It was to me, anyway, a relatively chaste period.

Why cant I sleep? When I'm about to fall asleep, I get excited that im about to sleep, causing me to wake up again. It repeats till my sleepiness is gone. I tried taking melatonin and not using my phone, but I end upawake for hours.

We had to wait for everything. Cars, Scooters, you name it. Nehru’s socialism meant that like the Soviet Union that he admired: There was a wait list for everything.

On a personal level.

I know that some will cavil that I am ignoring I. K. Gujral, Chandrasekhar, Deve Gowda, Morarji Desai, even the redoubtable A.B. Vajpayee’s stint as PM. But bear with me, for the moment. This is done on purpose and to make comparisons simpler.

Now folks on Quora have undoubtably heard the so-called term “Boomer Generation” used in the US. Interestingly enough these time periods dovetail quite nicely with “Indian Conditions” as well.

Nehruvian: I belong to the Nehruvian Generation.

Live-in, LGBTQ, none of these made the headlines.

There was no TV… Doordarshan of very poor quality only reserved for New Delhi.

Hindi Cinema had some great songs and tunes, even if many of us in the South especially didn’t understand such words as Ishq, Waqt, Zulf in the Hindi songs.

5 Star hotels are dime a dozen.

Study of Law (so important in my Dad’s generation gave way to Engineering and Medicine)

The Airports have gotten better and nicer.

There are Engineering Colleges in almost every street corner, it seems.

Your parents chose your career path and also your profession. Aptitude be damned.

1964- 1984–1991 ( Roughly Indira/ Rajeev Gandhi)

And then we did not have Google, Facebook, Whatsapp, Instagram.

People got married the old fashioned way (mostly).

Newspapers also heavily censored themselves- clashes were referred to as “communal disturbances” between two communities. No details.

Everything is available today without any delay. You have the money, you got it in today’s India.

Import Substitution was the mantra.

Women in India seem to have more freedom, even as they feel more afraid of the general environment.

As far as the vast majority of Indians, who lived from hand to mouth, there was hope and relief in a plethora of laws passed.

I will first attempt to use the nomenclature used to distinguish “generations” -albeit from a Desi Slant.

Now of course,Today Secularism to many is a dirty word and so is Socialism;

> Leaders such as Nehru, Rajaji, Morarji Desai etc. were held to the highest standard and they fulfilled that expectation. The idea that they were corrupt was unthinkable, any more than the thought that one’s parents had sex with each other. It was an age, in retrospect, of “innocence” and not just at the level of us kids.

Govt. careers, such as IAS, IPS etc. very quickly gave way to Engineering /Medical degrees in the newly developing India (At least in the South).

> Indian Political leaders, for the most part, were all men and some women of the highest educational and moral Calibre at all levels.

> The horrors of Partition meant that the Govt would make sincere efforts to put all that behind us and accommodate all faiths.

Bank Jobs were highly sought after.

Medical Insurance have proliferated along with US style expensive Doctor Bills.

Live in relationship; Divorce (almost unheard of in my youth) don’t raise an eyebrow.

Also, the Indian Economy while growing fast, is not able to provide jobs for sizable number of young men in the nation and that is a problem.

1991- 2014 ( P.V. Narasimha Rao/ MMS)

> India’s population was around 365 million.

2014- Present ( Modi).

Boys and Girls were strictly segregated.

Redefined

IIT’s had just been established.

Pluses:

Foreign goods, forget about it, mostly sold in black markets.

The big Cities have gotten bigger and is almost unlivable now, traffic wise.

Computers were just creeping in and opposed by the Labor Unions.

Hospitals everywhere in India, with excellent care offered.

The middle class was small, but not that stressed from inflation etc.